Thursday, April 28, 2011

Jesus was straight forward...

Luke 20:20 -22 Watching for a chance to get him, they sent spies who posed as honest inquirers, hoping to trick him into saying something that would get him in trouble with the law. So they asked him, "Teacher, we know that you're honest and straightforward when you teach, that you don't pander to anyone but teach the way of God accurately. .

Jesus never indulged people with His teachings. He always taught straightforward, can you imagine how offended people got? If their heart wasn't totally surrendered to God, they would try their hardest to get Him in trouble with the law. I have seen and heard of people doing this very thing today! People will get offended by something someone says and run to tell their authority figures...

When you are someone that really loves the word of God and you see people twisting it and not interpreting it correctly, it can really make you angry! Then to be accused and slandered wrongly, after you try and explain it to them,  can just put a bad taste in your mouth.


 Luke 10:16
“Whoever listens to you listens to me; whoever rejects you rejects me; but whoever rejects me rejects him who sent me.”

John 12:48
He who rejects Me, and does not receive My words, has that which judges him—the word that I have spoken will judge him in the last day.


Take heart, do what Jesus did. Don't pander to anyone but teach the way of God accurately. It is your calling, no matter what the consequence is....we must take a stand!

I have become very leery of people that every time there is a problem they run to tell their authority. Is this what God wants or are they just trying to brown nose? Get ahead, in the so called game. If someone offends you the bible does not say to run and tell your authority, it says to first go and talk to them. Discuss it with them! (Matt 18) I question peoples true motives when they do exactly what the religious leaders did in Jesus day. Are they truly seeking and doing the heart of God? The religious people where the people zealous for God, they appeared on fire for God and they abide by every rule! You would have never thought they had ulterior motives.
If they had a teachable spirit, they would have delighted to hear the teachings of Jesus. They would have questioned themselves and judged themselves to see if what Jesus was saying about them was true.

Now, there is a balance to this of course...

1 John 4:1
Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world.
Acts 17:11
These were more fair-minded than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness, and searched the Scriptures daily to find out whether these things were so.

We must search ourselves to see if what people are saying is true.

Now there is a flip to this....Peter was very zealous and desired to please God very much. He was the one that Jesus commanded to come out of the boat and he walked on water, he also was the one Jesus rebuked because he always put his foot in his mouth. When people first get saved they are very radical, they abide by every law and think that if you aren't on outreach your backsliding.....this isn't what I am talking about. They have no ulterior motives, they just haven't matured or learned  how to have tact.

Matthew 14:29
He said, "Come ahead." Jumping out of the boat, Peter walked on the water to Jesus. But when he looked down at the waves churning beneath his feet, he lost his nerve and started to sink. He cried, "Master, save me!"
Matthew 16:23
But He turned and said to Peter, “Get behind Me, Satan! You are an offense to Me, for you are not mindful of the things of God, but the things of men.”
Now , before you read the next verse, its important that you understand that the religious leaders had a lot of rules. They would impose those rules on everyone. Even with what they would eat, some foods where forbidden, like pork, shrimp, catfish ect....

The law of love....
Romans 14:14-23 (The Message)
13-14Forget about deciding what's right for each other. Here's what you need to be concerned about: that you don't get in the way of someone else, making life more difficult than it already is. I'm convinced—Jesus convinced me!—that everything as it is in itself is holy. We, of course, by the way we treat it or talk about it, can contaminate it.
15-16If you confuse others by making a big issue over what they eat or don't eat, you're no longer a companion with them in love, are you? These, remember, are persons for whom Christ died. Would you risk sending them to hell over an item in their diet? Don't you dare let a piece of God-blessed food become an occasion of soul-poisoning!
17-18God's kingdom isn't a matter of what you put in your stomach, for goodness' sake. It's what God does with your life as he sets it right, puts it together, and completes it with joy. Your task is to single-mindedly serve Christ. Do that and you'll kill two birds with one stone: pleasing the God above you and proving your worth to the people around you.
19-21So let's agree to use all our energy in getting along with each other. Help others with encouraging words; don't drag them down by finding fault. You're certainly not going to permit an argument over what is served or not served at supper to wreck God's work among you, are you? I said it before and I'll say it again: All food is good, but it can turn bad if you use it badly, if you use it to trip others up and send them sprawling. When you sit down to a meal, your primary concern should not be to feed your own face but to share the life of Jesus. So be sensitive and courteous to the others who are eating. Don't eat or say or do things that might interfere with the free exchange of love.
22-23Cultivate your own relationship with God, but don't impose it on others. You're fortunate if your behavior and your belief are coherent. But if you're not sure, if you notice that you are acting in ways inconsistent with what you believe—some days trying to impose your opinions on others, other days just trying to please them—then you know that you're out of line. If the way you live isn't consistent with what you believe, then it's wrong.




Monday, April 11, 2011

Used and abused...


When people think addiction they think, drugs and alcohol. However, we can be addicted to many things and people pleasing is one of them! I have struggled with this in my past and I have learned that people pleasing can run you ragged! It can kill the fire and peace God has given you! I have had to learn that I have certain boundaries that can not be crossed, if I let people cross them, I lose the victory. When people take advantage of me, it leaves me angry, hurt, used and resentful! We can blame everyone around us but it is our fault. We need to realize no one can take what we don't give. We are in control! If we do not take control, we have no one to blame but ourselves. I have had to learn to say no at the hardest times and make stands that were very uncomfortable, but today I am a better person because of it...not to mention happier!

Galatians 1:10 (New King James Version)
For do I now persuade men, or God? Or do I seek to please men? For if I still pleased men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ.
-VS-

1 Corinthians 10:33 (New King James Version)
just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.

These 2 scriptures seem to contradict themselves. We need to learn the heart of God....God is not into the extremes. Everything has a balance. Our enemy loves to take us to the extreme with every teaching the bible teaches. 
Paul wanted to maintain good relationships with people, he wanted to win them to Christ! He put priority on pleasing God, he knew if he was to busy pleasing people, he wouldn't be able to please God. People pleasing takes all your TIME and ENERGY! It leaves no room for God and what He has called you to do.

Acts 5:29 (New King James Version)
But Peter and the other apostles answered and said: “We ought to obey God rather than men.

Pleasing people is good but being a people pleaser is not.



If you allow yourself to be controlled, manipulated and used by others....you are indeed a people pleaser. If you fear rejection, judgement or what people say or think about you, you are probably are a people pleaser. If you fear people getting angry at you because of something you will or will not do, then you probably are a people pleaser.

Why do you do what you do? You reasoning and motives will tell you a lot about yourself.We should be doing things because we are led by God to do it or because it is the right thing to do. being persuaded by fear or people pleasing doesn't please God.

Sometimes things can appear to be good, but it may not be good at all. Enablers can be doing just the opposite of what God wants. They can be working against God, instead of with God. For instance: a person that enables an alcoholic to drink is not helping the person they are hurting them. Sometimes people need to hit bottom before they even find God! I was one of those people. I would have never experienced God if I didn't hit the bottom. If we are always rescuing people....God cant rescue them. We are in the way! If we love these people then the best thing we can do for them is stop helping them.


Hebrews 12:6 (The Message)
4-11In this all-out match against sin, others have suffered far worse than you, to say nothing of what Jesus went through—all that bloodshed! So don't feel sorry for yourselves. Or have you forgotten how good parents treat children, and that God regards you as his children?

My dear child, don't shrug off God's discipline,
but don't be crushed by it either.
It's the child he loves that he disciplines;
the child he embraces, he also corrects.
God is educating you; that's why you must never drop out. He's treating you as dear children. This trouble you're in isn't punishment; it's training, the normal experience of children. Only irresponsible parents leave children to fend for themselves. Would you prefer an irresponsible God? We respect our own parents for training and not spoiling us, so why not embrace God's training so we can truly live? While we were children, our parents did what seemed best to them. But God is doing what is best for us, training us to live God's holy best. At the time, discipline isn't much fun. It always feels like it's going against the grain. Later, of course, it pays off handsomely, for it's the well-trained who find themselves mature in their relationship with God

I am sure you will agree God is the author of real and true love. He shows us how to love correctly. He doesn't people please; he does what is best, no matter how hard it is. Tough love is the best love you can offer people sometimes.

Proverbs 13:24
He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.

I put this scripture up because although we might not be dealing with our children, it still applies! I have many people that I consider my children in Christ...baby converts, ect. I want to be helpful but I don't want to be an enabler! When someone as me to do something, the best response is, "let me pray about it, I will get back to you." It makes us think about what it is we are committing to and if its Gods will.

John 12:42-43 (The Message)
On the other hand, a considerable number from the ranks of the leaders did believe. But because of the Pharisees, they didn't come out in the open with it. They were afraid of getting kicked out of the meeting place. When push came to shove they cared more for human approval than for God's glory.

You can see the hindrance here in these peoples lives, when they live out the fear of people pleasing. You cant be what God wants you to be like this.

If you open yourself up to being used and abused you will end up bitter, resentful and angry. You do have control of this, even if it is uncomfortable. We need to be careful what we subject ourselves to.

Proverbs 4:23 (New King James Version)
Keep your heart with all diligence,
For out of it spring the issues of life.

I highly recommend reading the book "Approval Addiction" if you would like to read more about the subject.

Friday, April 08, 2011

My moms birthday pictures

 We decided to take random pictures of my mom last month for her birthday! We had so much fun! I really need to learn new techniques, this is what I enjoy doing!

Thursday, April 07, 2011

Don't get distracted...


Matthew 13:57
So they were offended at Him. But Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor except in his own country and in his own house.”
I want to draw the parallel from home town to home church. The place where everyone knows your flaws and knows where you came from.
Jesus could not do many miracles in His home town….prophet has no honor in his own home.
·         He did not let their rejection stop him, he knew he had many others to reach.
·         He didn't try and convince them he was a great guy.
·         He didn’t try a explain the Validity of his ministry.
·         He didn’t defend himself .
·        He never tried to help people that did not want help, he didn't beg them to believe.
Jesus did not say oh please can I help u or try over and over to help someone. He helped those that called out to Him….these were the people that already believed.
If they do not ask then do not try and help them! (This is for people that are saved and born again) This is not for the people we are supposed to reach out to, the people that do not know Him.
Luke 4:28-30 they tried to kill him when His words got corrective. They were ok with him when he was preaching  in the desert....when they needed something.
10% of people will not like you NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO!
Satan uses rejection to stop people in their tracks to keep them from fulfilling the call on their life!
 Matthew 10:14 (Amplified Bible)
14And whoever will not receive and accept and welcome you nor listen to your message, as you leave that house or town, shake the dust [of it] from your feet.
 Even when you find people that love and accept you, you must keep going.....don't stop there!

Luke 4:42-44 (Amplified Bible)

    42And when daybreak came, He left [Peter's house] and went into an isolated [desert] place. And the people looked for Him until they came up to Him and tried to prevent Him from leaving them.
    43But He said to them, I must preach the good news (the Gospel) of the kingdom of God to the other cities [and towns] also, for I was sent for this [purpose].
    44And He continued to preach in the synagogues of Galilee.
He wasn’t moved by rejection or acceptance, he was moved by the spirit of god.
You cant try and keep people happy, it will never work!
Jesus didn't even just stay were the multitudes where. He would leave the 99 for the 1!
Matthew 18:12-14 (Amplified Bible)
12What do you think? If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray and gets lost, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountain and go in search of the one that is lost?
13And if it should be that he finds it, truly I say to you, he rejoices more over it than over the ninety-nine that did not get lost.
14Just so it is not the will of My Father Who is in heaven that one of these little ones should be lost and perish.

We need to stay focused....we need to see with our eyes wide open. Our eyes need to be focused outwardly not inwardly...always looking at our own lives. People are so concerned with their own lives they don't see the heart of God. What really counts! Its not all about me!

Amos 6:3-6 (The Message)
Woe to you who are rushing headlong to disaster!
Catastrophe is just around the corner!
Woe to those who live in luxury
and expect everyone else to serve them!
Woe to those who live only for today,
indifferent to the fate of others!
Woe to the playboys, the playgirls,
who think life is a party held just for them!
Woe to those addicted to feeling good—life without pain!

those obsessed with looking good—life without wrinkles!
They could not care less
about their country going to ruin.

God help us not to be consumed by this world!
I don't care who hates me....I will not stay in a place where people love me.....I wont even stay in the multitudes. My hearts desire is to be lead by God, feel His heart and see what truly needs to get done and the DO IT....before its to late!

Matthew 13:22-23 (New King James Version)
22 Now he who received seed among the thorns is he who hears the word, and the cares of this world and the deceitfulness of riches choke the word, and he becomes unfruitful. 23 But he who received seed on the good ground is he who hears the word and understands it, who indeed bears fruit and produces: some a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty.”
My prayer is that God would help me identify the distractions in my life so I can be more useful to Him!
 

Religious?

I have been saved 9 years now. It has come to my attention that people use the word religous in different ways. Some mean it as a put down and others use it as what the definition states.

Religious means relating to or manifesting faithful devotion to an acknowledged ultimate reality or deity 2. of, relating to, or devoted to religious beliefs or observances 3. scrupulously and conscientiously faithful.


When Jesus dealt with religious people, He was very harsh at times. Religiousness is bad when you have become a robot. Doing traditions just for the sack of doing them and not knowing why or even what you are doing.

Addressing the people that only do what they are taught or have been told without really understanding. Their hearts are far from God.

Isaiah 29:13
The Lord says: “These people come near to me with their mouth and honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. Their worship of me is based on merely human rules they have been taught.

Addressing the people that are religous but still don't know who God really is:\

Acts 17:22-23 (New Living Translation)
22 So Paul, standing before the council, addressed them as follows: “Men of Athens, I notice that you are very religious in every way, 23 for as I was walking along I saw your many shrines. And one of your altars had this inscription on it: ‘To an Unknown God.’ This God, whom you worship without knowing, is the one I’m telling you about.

Addressing the people that claim to be religous but it is useless to them:

James 1:26 (New Living Translation)
26 If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless.

By definition I am a religous person, however, I know my God personally and intimately! I know His name and I understand why I do what I do. My heart is fully engaged! I do understand why people use this term but I beleive it is being used lightly. I dont beleive we should call people this. I also think that it is used when something has been said that hurts. I truly dont desire to hurt anyone but I will preach and teach the gospel and I stick to....If God be true, every man is a liar! If you contradict God, I WILL NOT AGREE WITH YOU. :-)!

 Romans 3:4 (Amplified Bible)
By no means! Let God be found true though every human being is false and a liar, as it is written, That You may be justified and shown to be upright in what You say, and prevail when You are judged [by sinful men].

Romans 3:4 (New King James Version)
 Certainly not! Indeed, let God be true but every man a liar. As it is written:
“ That You may be justified in Your words,
And may overcome when You are judged.”